I've started to read Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. This is the quote in the beginning Chapter 3, "Progress and Perfection",
'Tell us, if there were one thing we could do for your village, what would it be?'
'With all respect, Sahib, you have little to teach us in strength and toughness. And we don't envy you your restless spirits. Perhaps we are happier than you? But we would like our children to go to school. Of all the things you have, learning is the one we most desire for our children.'
-Conversation between Sir Edmund Hillary and Urkien Sherpa, from Schoolhouse in the Clouds
I love this quote because as Americans we feel like everyone wants to be like North Americans. Like Urkien Sherpa says which I believe of myself, I have a restless spirit.....of needing more, consuming more, spending more, ....it goes on and on......
Friday, March 12, 2010
Overwhelmed
Doesn't life just get to you sometimes. I've never been pessimist, but as I continue to unfold the pages back, things here in the USA are not so good. Everything boils down to money. I GET IT! But there has to be others out there that truly just want to help, like me. There are so many roadblocks you hit in the US, it's so easy to give in Peru.
Eventhough last night I took my own advice at MedZou. There was a couple from Hong Kong, China with their translator coming in for medical help. I gave a big smile and said, Ni Hao, as in 'Ni hao, Kai-lan'. For those who do not have kids, it's a Nick Jr. show similar to 'Dora the Explorer' except it teaches Mandarian. They were shocked because they thought I was fluent in Mandarian, I told them I wasn't, but the smiles I received was worth it. The translator expressed their gratitude because it made them think of home.
Eventhough last night I took my own advice at MedZou. There was a couple from Hong Kong, China with their translator coming in for medical help. I gave a big smile and said, Ni Hao, as in 'Ni hao, Kai-lan'. For those who do not have kids, it's a Nick Jr. show similar to 'Dora the Explorer' except it teaches Mandarian. They were shocked because they thought I was fluent in Mandarian, I told them I wasn't, but the smiles I received was worth it. The translator expressed their gratitude because it made them think of home.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Pictures of My Adventures in Peru
My Peruvian Family, I've grown up with them, I've bonded with all of them... even if it was just through a smile.
Medical Mission- 2008
The woman holding the picture is Ester. She is the cook for hospice, works for free, and when I saw her, it surprised me, since I had not seen her since 1999, on my first trip to Piura. This photo she took out of her pocket when I saw her was a picture of me with her grandsons, who now are grown. It touched me that she had carried me with her all those years. The only thing she asked me for was my green t-shirt before I left.
Bob, the burro and my favorite family, La Familia Chiroque-Ruiz. The family makes a living by selling water, using Bob to help.
The New CLINIC!! It's so exciting! This year medical staff should be able to use this AWESOME clinic for surgeries in the summer of 2010. The organization that makes this all happen is Santisimo Sacramento in Piura, Peru. You can check out all the exciting projects going on in Piura by going to www.santisimosacramento.org.
Hi Everyone, Just to add some more to my blog, without my bulldog and 3 1/2 year old literally in my face, here are a few more thoughts. How many of you have heard about the 'Lottery Curse'. It seems like many people who come into money right away, end up committing suicide. Is this from the stress of owning more, or is it that people expect money to make them happy?
There is a website that I found interesting: www.iadb.org/idbdocs/1776308.pdf
On page 13, the author, Eduardo Lora, the coordinator describes how uneducated and poor individuals have a higher satisfaction rate with social policies than educated individuals. Is this: 'Ignorance is bliss'?
There is a website that I found interesting: www.iadb.org/idbdocs/1776308.pdf
On page 13, the author, Eduardo Lora, the coordinator describes how uneducated and poor individuals have a higher satisfaction rate with social policies than educated individuals. Is this: 'Ignorance is bliss'?
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Happiness and Living in Developing Countries
I'm an huge fan of traveling! I was first inspired by one of my seventh grade teachers that traveled around the world and would show his students pictures. Ever since then I have been fascinated with understanding other cultures from its perspective. I'm a linguist at heart, but Spanish led me to a career in Nursing and now public health.
During my first mission trip to Piura, Peru (1999), my whole world that I knew, was turned upside down. The poverty was vast and numbing. When I came home, I cried looking at my car that I had, and thought this car could feed at least two villages. I decided to help my Peruvian friends and have continued to see them almost every year since.
The compassion and giving of a people without anything....literally was unknown to me as an American, where I feel like many people are out for themselves. As I'm aging I see that this statement becomes even more true and not so transparent anymore. I had men and women giving me gifts before I left from Piura in 1999. To my amazement when I got on the plane I opened a hand made box with a ring in it, an older gentleman gave it to me. He said 'Thank you'. For me this was a difficult gift to receive since it was very expensive and I knew or thought I didn't deserve such a gift for just being there and giving a helping hand.
The question that always has lingered with me is; who is more blessed, the Peruvians who have nothing but eachother and faith or North Americans who have every opportunity to have a job, but have a higher incidence of loneliness and depression. That's why I'm creating this blog to see what others think? Many of my South American friends are content and happy more so than my North American friends. Could it be due to cultural stresses? Thanks for reading and I look forward to your thoughts!
During my first mission trip to Piura, Peru (1999), my whole world that I knew, was turned upside down. The poverty was vast and numbing. When I came home, I cried looking at my car that I had, and thought this car could feed at least two villages. I decided to help my Peruvian friends and have continued to see them almost every year since.
The compassion and giving of a people without anything....literally was unknown to me as an American, where I feel like many people are out for themselves. As I'm aging I see that this statement becomes even more true and not so transparent anymore. I had men and women giving me gifts before I left from Piura in 1999. To my amazement when I got on the plane I opened a hand made box with a ring in it, an older gentleman gave it to me. He said 'Thank you'. For me this was a difficult gift to receive since it was very expensive and I knew or thought I didn't deserve such a gift for just being there and giving a helping hand.
The question that always has lingered with me is; who is more blessed, the Peruvians who have nothing but eachother and faith or North Americans who have every opportunity to have a job, but have a higher incidence of loneliness and depression. That's why I'm creating this blog to see what others think? Many of my South American friends are content and happy more so than my North American friends. Could it be due to cultural stresses? Thanks for reading and I look forward to your thoughts!
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